02-13-2008, 05:01 AM
Surprisingly it is often common to see people agaist valobasha dibosh. Keo keo bolen - they are anti valentineday, some say what nonsense is that, some have fears that its putting ppls' mind under influence by marketized love. I have thought of some possible reasons for people becoming an anti valentine concept.
1. bekti jibone prem nei. Preme korte bekul vabe agrohi kintu hotasha birajoman.
2. ek shomoy khub hoichoi korten kintu bortomane prem oshofol houay dintir proti apotti eshe geche.
3. valobashar nam kore manusher allad priti achoron oneker kachei chelemanushi ebong biroktikor. Valobasha dibosher ekti unligimate tradition toiri hoye geche jah kina nijer valobashar manushtir shathe hoito time spend kora, take abstract kichu gift present kora , doing party or may they call it thats how u celebrate love or saying I love you to own love multiple times may be ( well the last one was just my guess
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Well aey tradition gulo ke support kora khub ekta wise decision je hobe thik ta bolchina kintu amar mone hoi since these aspects have been part of this day everyone seemed to be or pretended to be hating it.
ek no. karon take mone dhore dintike shohomot na kora bokami chara ar kichui noy.
dui no. karontio khub ekta buddhiman jonok karon noy. Shomoy shobar jonne shobshomoy ek moton thakena. Shudhu matro bekti jibone kichu oviggota pelei je shetake means to an end vabte hobe quiet not acceptable.
tin no. reason tay validity ache. Proshno kora jete pare valobasha ki nirvor prokash? uttor hobe - hoito ha. Prottek manusher jibone prem vinno rupe dekha dei. Oneker kachei ekta nirvor prokash. Ete hasshokor kichu ache bole mone hoi na. Gifting er bepar ta hote pare shamoyik anondo dite shahajjo kore tai manush korte pochondo kore. Shundor upoharei je valobasha aro shundor hobe eta nichok bekub dharona. Tar cheye borong upoharer bepar ta shamoyik kichu anondo hishebe rekhe diya valo ebong valobashar upor er provav govir vabe na fellei shohoj hoi.
Shobcheye boro jei karon ta dekhka jai - shudhu ekdin keno hobe valobashar jonne? shara bochor-ito valobashchi !!
well, ekhane bolte hoi tahole amra protidin beche achi tarpor jonmodine eke oporke shuveccha binimoy kori. Amra protidin shadhin tobu shadhinota dibosh udjapon korchi. Tai proti muhurte valobashleo ekti shudhu valobashake utshorgo kore deya khub ekta dosher kihcu hoina. Shudhu kheyal rakhte para jai je dintir misuse jeno na hoi. Dintake marketize kore na fela hoi. Shudhu valentineday te eka eka ghurte hobe bole ekjon valentine jogar kore neyate nijer proti disloyaltir proman deya hoye jai. Amar mone hoi valentine day te valobashar manush tar proti dami upohar diye nijer valobasha ke dui gun baranor cheye amader valobashake bishoy take shuveccha janano uchit. Dinta dujoner valobashar din na kore , valobasha bepar ti ke celebrate korle hoi. Ekta tribute to it may be !
1. bekti jibone prem nei. Preme korte bekul vabe agrohi kintu hotasha birajoman.
2. ek shomoy khub hoichoi korten kintu bortomane prem oshofol houay dintir proti apotti eshe geche.
3. valobashar nam kore manusher allad priti achoron oneker kachei chelemanushi ebong biroktikor. Valobasha dibosher ekti unligimate tradition toiri hoye geche jah kina nijer valobashar manushtir shathe hoito time spend kora, take abstract kichu gift present kora , doing party or may they call it thats how u celebrate love or saying I love you to own love multiple times may be ( well the last one was just my guess
) Well aey tradition gulo ke support kora khub ekta wise decision je hobe thik ta bolchina kintu amar mone hoi since these aspects have been part of this day everyone seemed to be or pretended to be hating it.
ek no. karon take mone dhore dintike shohomot na kora bokami chara ar kichui noy.
dui no. karontio khub ekta buddhiman jonok karon noy. Shomoy shobar jonne shobshomoy ek moton thakena. Shudhu matro bekti jibone kichu oviggota pelei je shetake means to an end vabte hobe quiet not acceptable.
tin no. reason tay validity ache. Proshno kora jete pare valobasha ki nirvor prokash? uttor hobe - hoito ha. Prottek manusher jibone prem vinno rupe dekha dei. Oneker kachei ekta nirvor prokash. Ete hasshokor kichu ache bole mone hoi na. Gifting er bepar ta hote pare shamoyik anondo dite shahajjo kore tai manush korte pochondo kore. Shundor upoharei je valobasha aro shundor hobe eta nichok bekub dharona. Tar cheye borong upoharer bepar ta shamoyik kichu anondo hishebe rekhe diya valo ebong valobashar upor er provav govir vabe na fellei shohoj hoi.
Shobcheye boro jei karon ta dekhka jai - shudhu ekdin keno hobe valobashar jonne? shara bochor-ito valobashchi !!
well, ekhane bolte hoi tahole amra protidin beche achi tarpor jonmodine eke oporke shuveccha binimoy kori. Amra protidin shadhin tobu shadhinota dibosh udjapon korchi. Tai proti muhurte valobashleo ekti shudhu valobashake utshorgo kore deya khub ekta dosher kihcu hoina. Shudhu kheyal rakhte para jai je dintir misuse jeno na hoi. Dintake marketize kore na fela hoi. Shudhu valentineday te eka eka ghurte hobe bole ekjon valentine jogar kore neyate nijer proti disloyaltir proman deya hoye jai. Amar mone hoi valentine day te valobashar manush tar proti dami upohar diye nijer valobasha ke dui gun baranor cheye amader valobashake bishoy take shuveccha janano uchit. Dinta dujoner valobashar din na kore , valobasha bepar ti ke celebrate korle hoi. Ekta tribute to it may be !