Boshonto Family

eta ekta social and cultural aspect... emon ekta jinish ja change kora is almost impossible.

aami subject nia ekktu DEEP study kore amar opinion dichhi....:

ami mone kori biyer pore meyeder naam change kora joruri na...and also UCHIT na...! eeta amader "purush-tantrik" manoshikotar ekk-ta ROOP...! aami meye-der babar TITILE-o use kora support korina...! this is called EUROPEAN CULTURE....and we got this culture from western world. On da other hand, HINDU religion biyer pore husbander title use korte hoy....but islam is flexible...islam meyeder k bole nai je baba or husbander naam use korte...!

meyera nijer naam e porichito hobe...! ki dorkar male name ADD korar??? ami korbo na.....aami amar nijer naame porichito hote chai.....! AKIKA dia baba-ma naam rakhchhe....AMAR AKIKA keno dilo....:-)

rman, "social and cultural aspect" eita koreche kara? bolte parben ki?

Shoily api, dhonnobad apnar motamot jananor jonno...

Shetu, ami apnar sathe ek mot. Amar mote bachader naam ma-babar namer okkhorer sathe mil rakha jai.

tomara asolei boro jhamela koro
ki dorkar baba eto jhamelar..
bou tar nam change krobe kina oita tar bepar
amr bap ma jokhon amar bou ke dakbe ronjur bou boilai dak dibe..majhe sajhe or nickname dhoirao dak dite pare...
amar attiyo sojon o sabai ei vabei chinbe...jemon amr shosur barir attiyo sojon amake chinbe amar bou er name...amar name to r tara amake chinbe na....
r tar jodi nijer nam niya kisu kora dorkar hoy seita tar somossa..oto to mathar gham paye felar dorkar dekhtesi na..

r baccha der nam to bap ma sudhu na family er sabai mile rakhai uchit....tobe amr apittritrantik poribar jehetu bap er family er sur name ta hoito lagay sabai..tobe ajkal tao kore na

Biye korbo ki korbo na...eita e ekta boro kotha. Ar ami arrange marriage ekdom e support korina. So amar explanation er point of view hobe Love marriage er point of view theke. So eita matahye rekhe ami amar motamot niche bakto korchhi.

Ami personally Naam change kora ta support kori.Ami oboshhyo amar nanabari ba dadabari kothao amar khala, chachi ba phupi ke dekhi ni naam change korte. Shudhu amar boromami korechhe.And duita family tei kothao kono pressure chhilo na.Kintu naam change korata Amar khub valo e lagey. Je, jei manush ta ke valo bashi, amar naam er shathye tar naam er ekta ongsho thakbe.Mondo ki? TObe husband er family surname nijer naam er shathey lagano ami pochhondo kori na. Husband er first name, ba naam jodi purotai or nijer hoy (I mean surname chhara) tahole or jekono ekta naam ami nijer shathye khushi hoyei lagabo.

Chhelemeyer naam er khetre ami purno shadhinota rakhtey chai. Jeita amar parents amake ektu hole o diyechhilo. Amar middle name "Monjur". Abbu r "Monjurul karim" theke newa. Kintu family surname "Quazi" ami amar naam e add korte chai kina eita school e vorti r shomoy shei 6 yrs age e amake jiggesh kora hoyechhilo. Amar baba r family tader ei surname niye besh arrogant bole amar nijer ichha hoy ni ei naam ta rakhtey. Thats why ami nei ni. So amar jodi bachha hoy.....chhele r naam amar first name er shathey miliye rakhbo. Ar meye hole tar naam tar baba r shathey miliye rakhbo. Jokhn shomoy ashbe toKhn ami o amar bachhader oi shadhinota tuku ditey chai je tara tader baba r surname rakhtey chaye ki na.