hae.. ei kotha apnaake bujhaite hobe?!... apnake??!..
e to shohoz kotha..
1st of all.. "prem" baparta amar kase kamon halka halka lage... eta perfect English meaning probbly.. azkal kar so called over rated "affair".
jeta khub shohoz ei hoye jae... abar ek sthan theke ar ek sthan e ghure barraye...
So ppl are gettin involved for a lot less than wht is called "Love"...
2 jon 2 jon ke jus bhalo laaglei.. joriye porra.. class e ek shathe bosha.. canteen e, library te ghontar por ghonta chipkae thaka.. class sheshe rickshaw e ghurafera.. Fast Food shop e khawa... rate ghore fire.. abar mobile e kotha bola. sms-ing.. kotha bolte bolte ghumae jawa... ghum na ashle.. ghum parraye deya.. blah blah blah - ALl theze stuffz.. egula e to "prem" naki?
But koddin? ...2 mash, 3 mash.. dhorlam 6 months..tarpor thke e dekha jae.. ager she e taan ta ki thake?? ...both gets involved with som other party... and finally after streching it for 2-3 more months.. they split up.. and start to look for new one. this is "prem" ..but is this "Love" ???
bhalobasha to onek onnorokom jinish. Jetar shathe onno kono kisur comparison hoena.
Eta hoe Jae... kora Jae na...
Jae.. but sheta hoye gele tarpor hoe..
chinte hoe valobasha ke. tarpor korte hoe..
r... prem? she to khala ektaa... nothin but mare
timepass
1 of my girlfriend said,boys fall in love 'n girls did love.i dont know , i m confused.
utshober por Wrote:hae.. ei kotha apnaake bujhaite hobe?!... apnake??!..
Keno bhai? Apnar ki dharona ami prem/valobashar upor PHD kore boshe achi ? naki ami shakespere er natni je prem/valobasha r knowledge uttoradhikar shutre peye jabo?
utshober por Wrote:e to shohoz kotha..
1st of all.. "prem" baparta amar kase kamon halka halka lage... eta perfect English meaning probbly.. azkal kar so called over rated "affair".
jeta khub shohoz ei hoye jae... abar ek sthan theke ar ek sthan e ghure barraye...
So ppl are gettin involved for a lot less than wht is called "Love"...
2 jon 2 jon ke jus bhalo laaglei.. joriye porra.. class e ek shathe bosha.. canteen e, library te ghontar por ghonta chipkae thaka.. class sheshe rickshaw e ghurafera.. Fast Food shop e khawa... rate ghore fire.. abar mobile e kotha bola. sms-ing.. kotha bolte bolte ghumae jawa... ghum na ashle.. ghum parraye deya.. blah blah blah - ALl theze stuffz.. egula e to "prem" naki?
Premer je criteria apni describe korlen tar maddhome apni prem ar valobashake forcefully alada kore felchen shudhu matro ullekkho situation guloke differentiate korar jonne. And this is surprising karon prem valobasha theke alada noi borong valobashar synonym orthat arekti nam. Ar apni bolchen valobashle uporer criteria orthat prem ( apnar definition tai dhorlam) korte, eto kichu Jodi apni valobashar por korte chan tahole proshono hocche valobashar utsho kivabe ghotbe? Tahole to bepar ta arranged marriage er moton arranged love hoye daracche.
Ami bujhte parchi apni premer criteria guloke platonic love theke eliminate kore valobasha ke pure rakhte chacchen kintu ekhane ami bolbo premer je new definition gulo dilen shegulo “ FUN” terminology fela jai NOT prem, ar prem ke valobasha theke alada kore to kokhonoi na.
Ar amar mone hoi manush motamuti valobashake / valobashar manushti ke janar porei egulo kore. Ochena kono bektir shathe to keo ar cls roome chipkaye boshe thakena. Ha, eta different je jara manoshikvabe confused item tara egulor proti tike thakte parena ar notun kono mukher khoje tokhon beriye pore. Ekhane dosh hocche bektir , process er na.
utshober por Wrote:r... prem? she to khala ektaa... nothin but mare timepass
KENO? Prem khela hobe keno?
Aey dhoroner kotha hoito Ojanapother proshner uttor je ajkal breaks up eto beshi keno. apni upore je bishoy gulo bollen shegulo tahole ki? ashole amra mind set kore rekhechi. Diner belay BFC khabo ekjoner shathe , rater belay dejuice mulakat korbo arekjoner shathe kintu SHOTTIKARER Valobashbo moner moto manush take. Ashole je nije kotoboro ekta confusion e achi sheti bujhte parina. Oi Shottikarer valobashar ashay boshe thaki ar tumul vabe prem kore jai. Keno amra nijer shathe lukochuri kheli ? keno amra nijekei mittha asha diye rakhi je ekhon prem kore jai vobisshote valobashbo? Aschorjo ! As if life has been put into Paradox !!!
Disclaimer: this post have made out of my own personal perspectives. Any Resemblance to anyone are purely coincidental. Please do not ( any reader )allow any offense to yourself ( reader ).
Aaaaccchaaa Nirob Didiiiiiii!!!!!!!
Etttooo jene, ettto ettto bujhe ulto amader prosho kora hocchilo!! Onnai, gurutoro onnai.
"Ochena kono bektir shathe to keo ar cls roome chipkaye boshe thakena...." tholer beral evabey ber hoye ashe.... (hi hi hi...) [Amar keno jeno khub khushi lagche!!] :-)
Ojana pother prothom parar kichu proshoner uttor dei )amar moto kore obosshoi) -
btw Eshio ( Asia) valobasha ami prothom shunlam !!
Proshno korlen, kontake biswash korbo otit naki bortoman juger style ke?
- tarmane bujhtei parchen je otiter ar bortomaner juger partthoko esheche. Ebong etao hoito bujhte perechen keno eshche. Karon poribesh paltiyeche. Valobasha kintu shudhu matro ekti abeg. Etike bastobayon kore manush. Eti shompurno rupe nirvor kore kon bekti kon kale sheti implement korche. Shavabik vabei otiter ekjon bekti otiter procholito niyome valobashake appayon korechilo ebong dharona kora jai bortoman shomoyer manush bortomaner procholito niyomer moddho diyei jabe. Han, obosshoi exception thakte pare ebong duti shomoyei thik ebong bethiker drishti vongi thakte. Keo ekjon otite prem korechilo bolei je tar prem shottikarer ar ekhon ekjon mobile use kora bekti prem korche bole tar prem mitthakarer eti nishchoy noi.
Therefore, kon style follow korte hobe eti depend korbe thik / bethiker upor , shomoyer upor noi.
** Kaoke valobashle ki take shathe shathe bola uchit? /Take fhue , gifts e , greeting card e vashiye deya uchit? /shomoy katiye dekha uchit shei valobasha kotota govir? /valobasha ki etotai nirvor prokash? / kaoke valobeshe take jante na debar bepar taki uthei gelo prithibi theke?
- Eshober kichu nirvor kore ekjoner manusher upor, niyomer upor noi. Proshongulo procholito niyom ke ninda korche jekhane ninda kora uchit manush ke. Platonic love er era te greeting card procholito chilo na, premik/premika der juti ra kobita likhlo. shudhu matro aey karonei ki oder prem ta valobasha hoye gelo ar jara hall mark theke 25 takar card kine bolbe tader ta crush hoye gelo? ! Ekhane bishoy greeting card noi bishoy hocche kon onuvuti diye korche. Nijer vab prokash korar jonne apni apnar moner shotto kotha gulo kobita akare likhchen naki shomoy bachanor jonne internet theke poetry copy paste korchen. Niyom jetai follow kora hok na keno dekhar bishoy hocche tate koto tuku shotto ache. Ar eti kono niyom decide korbe na korben jara valobashchen.
Disclaimer: this post have made out of my own personal perspectives. Any Resemblance to anyone are purely coincidental. Please do not ( any reader )allow any offense to yourself ( reader ). _______________________________________________________________________
ps: eh likhte likhte tired hoye gelam. Baki ta pore likhbone.
