this thread might sound weird to U.... still khule fellam kichu na vebe e.
Just to c How u ppL respoonse...
amader oneker e dharona hoe.. Jibon er kono kono khetre.... That amra onek kichu e amadre baba Maar cheye bhalo bujhii.... r tara amader bujhen na. Ba bujhte cheshta koren na.
Generation Gap er jonno hok.. r je karon e hok.... amra onek shujog shubidha e Jibon er proithom theke peye ashchi.. jegula amadre Parents pan ni. So.. ei bapargula niye onflict hoe praae...
Now I wanna kno...
wht do u think. ?..
Do U think.. U kno better than ur parents?... sine when Ur havion this feeling? .. I mean at wht age?.. /which grade..?
y.. do U think tht??...
opinion please.
****Goto cho (6) bochor agey abishkar korechilam. Onara amai bojhenna beparta thik sherokom noi. Eta onekta ami/amra je tader bujhi shetai onara bujhte channa, onekta sherokom.****
<<<<Jibon, jogot, ebong shorbopori manushke janar shujog amader beshi hobar karoney hoito eta bujhte pari je jiboner bivinno angike hoito onader chyte beshi jani, tar mane ai noi je jana ojanar porikkhai onara korben feltu ar amra dibbi pash kore beriye jabo.>>>>
@@@@@ "Amar ma baba kichu bojhenna, ager juge bash koren, kothai kothai amader torko hoi, amake moteo bujhte channa," emonti bola hole ami bolbo onara non, je shontan bolche sha shontan-e oi baba mader bujhe uthte parenni. Oshob kichu hoi boley ta(n)ra baba ma, oshob kichu hoi boley shontan ebong baba mayer boyosher pathokko thake, ebong ohsob kichu hobar pechone haat royeche tader totkalin paribarik, orthonoitik, ebong manoshik kathamo. Eshob kono shontan bujhte parai mane tar ma babake bojha ebong tader kotha o achoroner ekti karon o bekkha da(n)r korano. Ar ami/amra protiniyoto bujhey jacchi tao ta(n)der kono vrukkhep ney tokhon-e sheta hoi "ami/amra je bujhi sheta onara na bojha." @@@@@
Parents ra mone kore they know BETTER than us...there's no way that you can change their mind...Generation GAP bole ekta kotha ache...and ei jonno parents der shathe amader mile na...milbe'o na konodin...ar ei parents der jonnoi amader onek'er life nosto hoise abong hobe...amar ta soon nosto hote jachche...!!
Eto kothin kotha keno Tanha? parentsder karone life nosto hote jache ! ?
Ekta example dei. Ekta genius student matro degree niye ekhon jober interview dite geche. Student ta ke ginius bola hoche tar mane she onek beshi talented. Tar shathei ekta motamuti dhoroner manush interview dite geche kintu tar academic result khub beshi valo na holeo besh koyek bochorer working experience ache. Ki mone hoi job ta pawar probability kar beshi. With no doubt job ta pawar chance beshi jar experience ache tar. Thik ekivabe amra hochi new born candidate and our parents are expeienced candidate.
Generation gap er problem gulo r jonne parents and amra equall vabe responsible. It is all about the time period each group are born. Amra ajke hoito beshi jani onek kichur karone jemon, shomoyer shathe shathe media, technology, environment change hoye geche jegulo amra use korchi kintu amader parents ra korte paren ni. E dik diye amra egiye achi. But no technology can earn u maturity, experience of life. Amra ajker tarikh ke beshi jani kintu amade parents goto kal ti beshi janen. Chinta korle hoito dhora porbe je history na janle kintu future predict kora jai na.
Amra aey boyoshe ja peyeche baba ma ra sheti pan ni tai amader mone hoche amra egiye achi eta shotii kintu tara amader cheye ekdhap shomoy egiye thakben oviggotar dik diye. Nobodhara jemon bollen je chelemeye ar parents der motamot e difference ashlei amra jug ke tene ani. Juger upor dosh chapie diye nijeder ke ejuger hobar credit nite chai. Amrai ki eki bhul korchi na eta na mene niye je jug jokhon palte geche oder theke mutual understanding na paway amra keno tader upor birokti prokash korchi. Torke jaowa to kono proyojon thake na jokhon amra already jani je tara ager juger manush. Credit amader tokhoni hobe jokhon amra taderke bujhate parbo.
Ke beshi jane aey proshnotai kichu hasshokor. Chelemanushir moto porichoy deya hobe aey proshno ta korle. Ajke amra ektu bujhte pere shob kichu amader moto kore palte felte chaichi. Tader puraton hobar label lagiye diye amader modhe theke dhorjo namok jinish ta harachi.
Kothin na Norom bujhi na...ami ja bolechi shotti bolechi and Truth always hurts...
Parents der bhul decision er jonno tader chele/meye der jibon nosto hoy...parents ra mone koren tara beshi bujhen, bhalo bujhen, kintu eta thik na...jeshob parents kokhono tader chele/meye der mon bujhte chai na, pochondo-opochondo'er daam dey na, shei shob parents der chele/meye ra suffer beshi kore...I'm ONE of them...!
But there's always exception...amon onek parents achen who are like friends to their kids...those kids are the luckiest ones...and Exceptions can't be an example...so, eta niye ami ar kichu bolte chai na...
Last e ekta kothai bolbo, Parents der eirokom dharona bhanga uchit...they should know amader mon ache, shadh ase, ichcha ase...we can't always do what they want us to do...we came in this world to make our dreams come true...not theirs..!
Parents bolei je tader shob decision thik hobe erokomti noi. Bhul je kono manusher hotei pare. Eta vebe tader upor dosh chapiye deya ta ar Ke beshi jane aey dhoroner proshono koratao moteo beshi jana noi. Duiti alochonar duidike chole jai.
Each man are unhappy on its own way. Amra amder nijeder jibone dhukhi and shukhi. What happend to you , I dont know. If it had happend because of ure parents sitll u would be find them helping u. Tumi kihcu thik kotha bolecho. Jemon parents der ekti common attribute ache tara tader parenthood ke influential korar jonne chelemeyeder upor pressure den. Amader upor tader odhikar tikiye rakhar jonne. Odhikar chorcha korte giye vaggo niyontron korte boshle obosshoi valo kichu ghotbena. Amader jibon diye shei jibone malikana dabi korata nishchoy justified hobe na. Ashole eta onek controdictory concept. Jar jar point of veiw theke different answer ashbe. Shobar mentality, decision nebar maturity, lyf er experience ek na. Tai tomar prothom kotha gulo pore kharap lagche. Ami amar bekti goto jibone feel korechi egulo. Kintu tomar sheshes kothatay obak holam. Tomake sharthopor bolbona kintu vabchi manush tahole bache ki niye?
I know aeytar uttor onek vabe deya jabe and they will be right. KOtha ta ghuriye bolle hoito easy hobe. Manush prithibite ehse shukhonoy jibon katanor jonne shopno khuje nei prithibite tar obosthan bujhe. Sheta shomoy, oboshta bujhe paltay kintu prithibite ashar karon eta noi. Tahoel kintu manusher shopno gulo dhire dhire limited manusher modhe roye jabe jar karone vobisshote dekhar moto kihcu thakbena.