Kichudin dhore kichu proshno mathay ghurche.
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Valobasha niche dike neme jai keno? Valobasha subject tato as a divine dhora hoi, then techniquelly etate equality r bepar ta thakbe. Which i mean when a mother says he loves his both children that means the love/affection toward them is undoubtly equal. It happens not only between mother and children. Valobasha jokhon ekti mohan jinish hobe tahole eta shobar jonne justified. Tahole keno valobasha niche dike neme jai? Amra baba ma ke jibone shobcheye prothom valobashte shikhi. tarpor jodi as life partner hishebe keo ashe take valobashi tarpor chelemeye. Aey chelemeye stage porjonto ashte ashte baba mar proti valobasha ta kome jai keno? Ekhane ektu bujhte hobe kome jaoja bolte ami amoral kichu bujhachina. Kintu eta shotti je ekjon purush/nari jiboner modho stage eshe tar chele meyer proti beshi bonding feel kore compare to their parents. Valobashar niyome aey jinish ta keno hoi?
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Which one is easy/hard to perform? Why?
-being a wife or being a mother?
ami jani na ami kotota valo bolte parbo tumar prothom prosner uttore. ja ekhon mone hochche.
Prothome ami dujon manob-manobir valobashatake bekkha korbo. valobasha ekta onuvuti. amader hridoyer ekta emotion theke eti sristi hoy jeta prothome bujha jay na. jei muhurte tumi vabte suru korle je eta valobasha tokhoni eta valobasha bole mone hoy. tar mane valobashar suruta ekta sokto vite gore na. onuvuti poriborton hotei pare somoyer taane. ar e karonei eta poriborton hotei pare..ebong hoy.
maayer khetre valobashata jodi boli. eta onuvuti theke ase na boroncho ase aro govirota theke. maa-babar gene jekhane hajar hajar bongsodhorer probaho...valobasha...narir bondhon...sei sathe attar bondhon...eto bondhon..eto sokto vit je maake alada kore sontaner proti valobashar jono onuvutir jonmo dite hoy na. tai eta omlan ebong oporibortinoy.
ar baba maar proti ekta somoy sontaner valobashar komti kinto ghote na, bodol hoy manisikotar.
valobasha..mayar kono bodol nei. valobasha jekhane sristi hoy sekhanei thake. sudhu valobashar proti amader onuvutir poriborton hoy. amrai ekta barai..komai amader manosikota dara.
amar phisolohpy hcochche, amader hridoy onek boro. tahole amra pari sobaike ek sathe rekhe ekek joner proti valobasha dekhate. ekjoner jonno arekjoner proti valobasar bodol ami mene nite pari na.
tumar ditiyo prosner uttore bolbo konotai sohoj noy. Stri ebong maa dutur dayitto alada ebong dutui kothin. jodi tulonar kotha bolo, ami to bolbo stri hisebe dayitto palon korata kothin. kenona ekjon sompurno ochena..onno manosikotar ekjon manusher sathe sara jibon thakata onek tough. sekhane mene neya ebong maniye cholar bujha thake. jehetu ei dayitto prothomei ase sehetu etai beshi kothin kaaj. maayer dayitto-tao kothin. tobe sekhane gorar kaaj thake. ekhane korar onek kichu thake setao onek koster.
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.....the only pure love in the world is a mother's love for her clildren. all the other loves we talk about are only some different versions of love......premik premikar majher valobasha ta ekta attraction matro....oposite sex er proti attraction ta natural karonei eshe jay.premer prothom dike ai attraction khub beshi thake, karon tokhon dujoneri agroho thake eke oporke janar.....erpor mugdhota barte thake....amra mone korte thaki valobasha barche.....tarpor biye.....sex....babies.....beshir vaag khetre ekhan porjonto eshe mugdhota shesh hoye jay.....amra boli valobasha kome jacche........biyer maddhome amra samajik daiboddhotay joriye pori.....ja samajik karonei amra erate parina........tai mugdhotahin daiboddhotake husband-wife er valobashar naam diye continue kore jai.......amra onek conservative r sohonshil bolei family process take dhore rakhar chesta kore jai........jeta western country gulote thik ulto........tader mugdhota shesh....relation o shesh........
this is only my personal opinion.....but i wud love to be proved wrong.....
kotha gulo pore valo laglo. jodio amar proshno chilo onnorokom but in some point of your opinion I do agree. Biye jinish take amar kacheo daiboddhotota mone hoi. Hajar controversery modhe feleo etake ektu ek gheyemir porjaye fela jai. Togatherness take vodrotar nam deyar karone biye jinish tar shrishti. As mr. showkat said ekta porjaye mansuher attraction shes hoye jai because of biological reason. And this is a factor cause the origin of love is from hormones. Tokhon relationship ta bear korte hoi sociological boundary r jonne.
Ekhane ami je proshno ti korechilam tar explanation mone hoi paoa jabe. Valobasha keno nimnomukhi? To carry a relationship further. Premk-premeka r valobasha theke husband wifi bonding create hoi. Sheta theke parental caring er. Imagine jodi attraction ta shudhu husband wife porjonto thakto tahole life circle er iti ghote jeto. Ekti puro married life lasting kore shudhu valobashar khatire noi, ekta porjaye responsibility r karone , in addition manush poribortoner karone.
Chinta korlei kemon lage! aey je eto valobasha, ek dhoroner maya r tan- sheta shobshomoy thakena. Thakleo tar vashay kichuta holeo poriborton chole ashe.
Manush western culture ke ninda kore but kintu jodi kotha hoi shara jibon ekshathe thakar tahole ami mone kori shekhane biye jinishtar kono credit nei. Credit hobe amader understanding er upore. How do we see a relatioship. Manush nijei shomaj banay abar nijeder banano jinish takei shobcheye beshi bhoi pai.