Recently I was talking with my friend about which kind of girl should we mary. He seemed to be very depressed about some of the recent trends. So I suggested him not to be worried just try those girls who wear Heezab or borka. But he told me that these types girls are worse because they do more bad things then others. I really got confused. As a former student of IUT I am out of touch with modern girls. I hope some boshonto members (atleast NAHEEN) wear heezab or borka. So you can help me understand the recent scenario. If other members have any idea on this matter please share ......
Etao ekta stereotype. Bhalo mondo manush ke heezab ba borkha pora diye bichar kora ki thik?:-S
Try to get to know someone. If you and the girl like each other and you have your family's permission, then who is going to resist u from being together
? Don't just think about getting married. Think about knowing and understanding a person. The rest will follow it.
heezab/borkha porlei je kharap manush hobe ar heezab/borkha na porlei je valo manush hobe erokom vabar ki ase? why judge sum1 by their apparel, or - their looks? manusher monta kamon shetai to ashol kotha.
Its true that today people are putting comment not analyzing properly.
miftah Wrote:Recently I was talking with my friend about which kind of girl should we mary. He seemed to be very depressed about some of the recent trends. So I suggested him not to be worried just try those girls who wear Heezab or borka. But he told me that these types girls are worse because they do more bad things then others. I really got confused. As a former student of IUT I am out of touch with modern girls. I hope some boshonto members (atleast NAHEEN) wear heezab or borka. So you can help me understand the recent scenario. If other members have any idea on this matter please share ......
You were too naive to advice your friend that he should marry a girl wearing a heejab or borkha. Your friend was wise enough to disagree and say those type of girls are far worse because they (as in, most of them) do far worse things. I couldn't agree with your friend more.
While not all of them are like that (i've had some friends/people i know who are pretty islamic and they are truly nice girls), most of the girls that i have come across are. For instance my highschool was filled with South Asian kids, mostly Muslims. Naturally, we had lots of girls wearing heejabs and stuff. Atleast i saw some of them coming to school wearing them. Later they'd go to the washroom and take them off and totally change their outfit. Before going home, they were back to their old selves. Some even wore them and smoked. Yes smoked. Not that smoking is *bad* (hey i smoked and i like red wine
), but isn't it kinda oxymoronish when you see someone wearing heejab, smoking and flirting around with boys in the parking lot? (A group of Bangali girls even got suspended for having waterball fights with the guys. hehe)
Once, a Bangali girl posted some prettyyy *different looking* pics of her on Hi5 or somekinda deshi site. If you must know, she was wearing a mini skirt in one of the pics. So yeah, they're not always as innocent as they may appear to be.
Whlie am not saying am a saint (i'm far from that), I am proud of myself for not wearing it. Yes proud. Whatever i do (atleast 99% of the stuff), I do it openly and i don't feel the need to hide behind a heejab just so people will automatically think "hey that girl must be really good because she's wearing a heejab". I have tried wearing a heejab, infact i've kinda gone against my parents because no one in the history of our family ever wore one (not that we are not religious at all). Then i realized it isn't working for me. I can't do it, i don't feel myself in it. Not that am really bad and stuff, but I am not not a saint, I don't want myself to be wrongly appeared like one either.
hezab ki kono valo kharap er mapkathi?? mone hoy na.amra jemon vat khai, tv dekhi,ghumai,namaz pori.. hizab to temon ekta jinish!! tyna? eta poray kono speciality nai.. na poray kono crdit nai.its as simple as thss.
Allah ekta bidhan amader die diechhen-for women.sotor dhaka kintu foroj.ar meyedr sotor dhakay hijab included.ami mone kori etay enough kono dicision neyar jonno.
hijab pora meyera owrst hoy??? hotey pare. ei prithby te 2 type er manush achhe.ek jara dhormo bishyash kore oi pothe chole. ar dui jara dhormo ke use kore.o achhya arek type er achhe jara kichhu na bujhe khali chola dorker ty chole. ekhane kichhu ta shartho o thake... ALLAHr rohmot pele shukhi howa jabe... ei type er chinta vabna r ki!!ami emon vabe bolchhi jeno ami dhoa tulshi pata....
jyhok, hizab pora thakle jemon manush fereshta hoy na. na porleo she j mohan kaz korchhe emon kintu na. karon hizab ekta niom.ebong amdr toiry niom na...Allah nije ei niom baniechhen, He knows the best!!