HI FRIEND,
I AM TABIB.I HAVE A QUESTION FOR U ALL.BCS WE ALL KNOW THAT MANY PEOPLE MANY MINDS.SO THE OPENION CAN BE DIFFERENT FROM OTHERS.BUT WE NEED THE PERFECT ANSWER.
AND THIS QUESTION FOR THOSE PEOPLE WHO WANT TO GET MARRIED.
BCS IT IS A VERY IMPORTANT QUESTION .
I HOPE ALL U WILL HELP ME TO GIVE THIS ANSWER.
TABIB
Tabib bro.. welcome to the forum..its nice to see you have started posting so soon..
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As for your question.. i personally believe in love marriage..but i have seen both of them work and fail.. so kono concrete belief nai je ekta onnotar cheye obosshoi bhalo..
ai aktateo bissas kori na
karon amar mote marriage is made in heaven ..aita satti mone hoe...sutorang arraange marriage e bolo ar love marriage e bolo
sab e to asole arranged from uporwala
I think... its All depends.... both of thm might work.. or both of thm might fail... Though My personal belief is quite diffrnt...frm A Lot of ppl..... I believe in Love.. But I prefer Arranged Marriage...
cz I feel tht.... the bindings..and the other compulsory stuffz.. tht one has to carry out in marriage shud not affect the Pure Love btn 2 ppl.. cz Love is a heavenly feeling.... tht takes us to a difrnt genre of World....
I know...many wil certainly disagree with my views.. But frm watching the lives around me.... Im havin2 believe so..
I may b wrong.... only time will tell.
If you think scientifically then according to the defination, mrriage means a social permission to have sex and raise children. But some westerners changed it to only permission to raise children. And some turned it what they don't even know. Think about the single parents.
Well so I think and I am going to do, that if I fall in love with some one and if it be two sided then our first date is going to be in the marriage ceremony and if there is a social problem, (like if we are too young) then in the Kazi office then we will make love and establish it between us.