01-21-2006, 01:00 AM
Today i was defeated to my cousin Naheen.When I asked her
to wear heejab she asked me why i do not wear it.I told her
it is not for men it is for women, and a man has to prvent
himself from looking at a girl.Then she told me that \"you
are not doing this so do it first and then give advice\".
I was thundered hearing this logic. In our country we men
always blame young women for the social disasters such as
rape,sexual abuses,we use to say that if women wear heejab
these will never occur.But we never think about ourselve.
In the holly Quran before imposing the rule of heejab Allah
has ordered the men not to look at women.But we do look at
them as long as possible and blame women for that. But for
these kinds of social disasters men are equally responsible.
It is time we should admit our faults leaving the false ego
of manhood.Otherwise a healthy society will only remain
in our dreams.
to wear heejab she asked me why i do not wear it.I told her
it is not for men it is for women, and a man has to prvent
himself from looking at a girl.Then she told me that \"you
are not doing this so do it first and then give advice\".
I was thundered hearing this logic. In our country we men
always blame young women for the social disasters such as
rape,sexual abuses,we use to say that if women wear heejab
these will never occur.But we never think about ourselve.
In the holly Quran before imposing the rule of heejab Allah
has ordered the men not to look at women.But we do look at
them as long as possible and blame women for that. But for
these kinds of social disasters men are equally responsible.
It is time we should admit our faults leaving the false ego
of manhood.Otherwise a healthy society will only remain
in our dreams.
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