Part1:
If your spouse wanted to be with someone else JUST ONCE and would never be unfaithful again, would you let him or her do it?
Part2:
How would you take if you have come to know that your spouse have already been unfaithful . What would you do then? How would you react?
first of all, me no married...tarpor hoilo giya
amr mone hoe er poreo Part 1 er ans. kora jae...
...itz solely dependz on how our relationship will be...if she is happy wid me thn there's no way she would like to b wid som1 else...bt if she
isn't then thennn...hummm thn e hoilo giya joto shomossha... ...if she desires to be with someone just for once & asked my permission thn i don see any sin in tht...in tht case my answer will be "yes"...
regardin Part 2...no comments
jani na...
sure na...
emono hoite pare ami kono shomoy e kisui mind korlam na...
abar emono hoite pare j khepe khupe kisu ekta kore felsi...
amar jonno totally unpredictable.
Part1, why would u like to be with someone else when im still here? why? why? why? noway im gonna let that happen.
Part2, i would be seriously hurt.. BUT its the person i love most and whatever you say now, i dont think a sole mistake can make her into a different person whom i can\'t love anymore. then again as i\'m stupid i forgive & not fotget most of the times.
Answer to Part 1: hhhmm....well......if my spouse is happy with me, then he would never want to be with someone else.....not even for once. But if he wants to be unfaithful and asks for my permission before doing it (which I am sure he wouldn\'t!) then ...I would say, \"Jodi unfaithful ee hou tahole aar ekbar duibar ki? permissioner ee ba dorkar ki?.....jao.....and don\'t ever come back, because now I know what place I have in your life.\"
Answer to Part 2: spouse jodi unfaithful howar pore amake bole....tarpor ami je ki korbo ami nijeo janina, ami hoeto prothome onek rege jabo, khepe ultapalta kichhu korte pari...but shey jodi shotti shotti beparta regret kore ebong amar kachhe feere ashte chae, if he asks for forgiveness, I guess aami taake ekta chance diye forgive kore dibo...but second time jodi emon hoe...if he breaks my trust then I wouldn\'t like to stay in that relationship anymore. I will break it up no matter how much it hurts me.
Part1:
total fantasy. no-one will ask permission like this. even if you think it can happen, the chance maybe .000001% only. if it happens in my life it ofcourse depends on the existing relationship. for this kind of sacrifice my spouse needs to acquire too much of love, respect and trust from me
Part2:
this is most common senerio. the reaction would be according to the relationship also. but most cases people cannot bear it.