Boshonto Family

well...
amar jeta mone hoise ta holo...
jodi tactfully handle kora jai AND JODI IN-LAWS RA ONUKULE THAKE OR AT LEAST NIROPEKKHO THAKE... thn etai shob cheye bhalo solution... 51 borti thaka...

cuz... ekta meye ekta family k jahannam o banate pare abar jannat o...its all upto how u r thinking...
and amar mone hoi adhunik meyeder ekta prb ase...era ektu beshi age a bie kore bole ektu beshi e nijer ekta jogot nie bz thake or thakte chai... and sacrificing tendency ektu kom thake...
thus... nijer life handle korte tader prb hoi and \"nijer moto thaka\" er ekta concept create hoe jai...

and idaning...specially amader olpo kisu ager gen theke er tendency barar ekta boro karon holo upbringing change hoya...
thus.. in-laws ra ekhono ager moto typically meyeder judge kore...and bhul kore...
cuz ei meye gula boro hoi diff bhabe...eder judge korte hoi individually and sophisticated way te.. taile ek chader niche thaka impossible kisu na...

now...ami etokkhon shudhu matro meyeder dosher kotha ta boltesilam...kintu aro ekta dik ase...
and ta holo...
cheleder and tar familyr dristy bhongi... onek shomoy tarao besh kisu bhul kore lokkhi type meye bou gula k alada hoe jete hoi...
ektaa cheler bhumika ei khane bishal...tar emon bhabe tar bou k nijer family er sathe mishai dite hobe jate shei meye e alada hoyar kotha chintao na korte pare... and ei khane oke help korte family er...

and ami etokkhon ja kopchailam puratai hypothetical bepar...
mane amar chinta bhabna r ki (bishal ekkhan lecture dia bhaab dhorlam )..

at end...
amar mone hoi jodi shobai tactfully and honestly try kore...thn amar kase best solution hocche 51borty family.



atlast...
bDe and Abhie...
WILL U STOP Ur BHAAB AND NONSENSE TALKING???
han korenga-tan korenga AND han korte pari -tan korte pari bad die...ja bolar ase bole felo...
r ek joner jonno wait korte hobe keno???
mathai ja ase bolte paro na???
na parle chup thakba...r ek joner jonno wait kortesi type faltu post korba na... birokto lage porte.

thanx teacher !

Apnar ei aushadharon lectureta ki ami print-out niye rakhte pari?..
jate future e amar \"in-laws\"ra kivabe family plan korte hoe... she bapare shikhya grohon korte pare??....

anywayz... Jokes apart. That was really a good post Naheen...

Tor pointgula thhik e ase.. but don u think... ekhane 1 shathe onekgula negotiation er dorkar ase??? ...its lik shobgula 1shathe click korlei eta shomvhob.. otherwise.... maxmimum shomoyee kichhu bhul bujhha bujhhi... ego-clashing... shob tochhnochh kore dey...

AMader parents kinba taer ager gen. er koejon \"in-laws\" compromise korte chae??...bol. amake exmple dekhate parbi?

koi...ami to dekhina. Nowhere.... and at the end of the day... 2 pokhyoi baparta mene ney.... I mean They accept The TRUTH.

nope....
print out nite paro jodi tumi tomar bou er in-laws...mane tomar family k train korte chao...
better age nije bojho and shekho...Mr. obhiggotar jhapi no 2

now...wht truth u r talking abt???
they ve to split???

if they...thn its their fault...
if they dont and try harder...its their success...

amar mone hoi las sec porjonto try kora uchit eksathe thakar jonno.

Hhhmmmm....well....etokhkhon shobari boktobbo porlam monojog diye. First of all, I would like to jharify b_D_e and Abhie bhaiyya......tomader shomshsha ki? Tomra ki tomaderr mulloban kotha bolar jonno \'sahi mohurat\' khujchho naki?? Ekjon thread open kore lukie gelo aar arekjon bhaab mere jachhe!! Tomader dui joner jonno ei Adorer Chhoto Boner torof theke duita DANDAR bari...!!!

nhn appi\'r kothagulo khubee shotti ebong shundor chhilo.....goody appi

Hhmm.........well......biyer por MOST of the couples keno alada thakte chae? ei question er answer ami janina. Ekhon porjonto ami khub kom family ee dekhechhi jekahne biyer por chhele alada hoe gechhe. Chhelera kokhono alada hoena unless and until the parents kick them out (which usually never happens!)
Aar meyeder bepar holo ki, kichhu kichhu meyera aage thekei decide kore rakhe...je \'amra kokhono amader in-laws der shathe thakbona. Chhi, in-laws der shathe keu thake naki?\' Those girls alwayz have that kind of attitude, taara nijeder family-r shatheo thakte chae na ebong husband er family-r shathe to......moteo naa!
I guess those girls care more about their privacy and their lives, they don\'t seem to think about their in-laws or their husbands\' feelings towards them...ek kothae, they are selfish. Ei dhoroner meyeder ke kokhono 51borty family te rakha jaena coz taara jehetu okhane thakte chaena, therefore they create a lot of pechals and ultimately shift somewhere else with their hubbies.
Then, there are other group of girls who understand everything, who are sensible and who make the best decision (that is, living with their in-laws).......Ekhon eikhane ekta chhotto kotha.....eishob meyera usually dekha jae je onek considerate, they are ready to consider and do anything to keep happiness and peace at home, kintu eder abar in-laws ra unfortunately taader misjudge kore
Actually I think....both the parties should try to understand each other....tahole aar alada howar proshnoi othena.
Well....Boys....boys ra kokhonoi chaibena taader parents der theke alada thakte....ebong....amar mote, alada thakar kono dorkaro nai if they can find a lokhkhi, nice, considerate bou

Hhmmm..ebar amar shorboshesh kotha....I would never live away from my in-laws. I would like to live with my shoshur-shahsuri, bhashur-jaa, deor, nonod....everyone!!....not because I want to experience the joys of living in a joint family but because I feel that is the best decision......joto problems, joto conflicts ee hok na keno...my husband\'s family is my family after all.....ebong amar family ke chhere ki aami kokhono duure thakbo? NO!

P.S~~Aami janina amar hothat kore ki holo....keno etto bokbok korlam (Allah jaane off topic kotha bole fellam kina) I am sorry everyone. If this post bores or hurts anyone plz lemme know....I\'ll delete it...But I just wanted to share my view with everyone.