excellent sush...
now i ve heard of guy who is alive abt 30 mins after his attemt...and u knw wht was his las plea??? \"plz dont suicide...wahtever u do...dont do this...\"
he was lying under a running train which cut him into two and he was alive for 30 mins more...
may ALLAH bless him.
Thanks shush27 for info and the real life story...it is so true if we just listen to our friend; we can change their day or even life..
off topic jodio kicuta...
amar ak bondur boro bhai sucide korlo.. or abbu\'r cancer dora porlo.. sob kisu miliye or akata critical time par korcilo... anar or nick name porasuna chere baba\'r business dektey suru korlo.. ami tokhno london.. amader kono bondu or news jane na.. anar sobar shathe jogajog bondo kore bose ache..koro phone receive kore na. ami ok phone korlam or birth day te. ami jani at least o aj phone receive korbe.
or shathey kotha hoyecilo about half an hour...ki bolechilam aj mone nei... two month pore anar k london airport e receive korte jai...
o akhon bar-at- law korce.. about two month before i received a mail from him...today is the day you received me from airport...you have changed my life so many ways... you are still my a friend, a philosopher and a guide..
Isn\'t it cute? I just needed a phone call and i know if i need him one day... he\'ll be there for me.
A person do not get to decide whether s/he will be born or not, nor get to choose his/her birth place, family. I think that is the biggest unfairness to begin with. So is death, another example of utter unfairness - most people die when they really do not want to die.
So, if someone wants to make life look a little bit more fair by taking at least one of these decisions on his/her own hands - is it really too unfair?
maybe it is not unfair...
but it happens when world is unfair with them
that is the tragedy
Its weird how i didnt check this thread before.. i agree that one should always try to help if anybody they know have suicidal tendencies..
But i myself have been suicidal through a big part of my life and i think its still there but i dealt with it myself..and my responsibilities also helped.. but i dont expect everyone to be as lucky as me..giving a bit of time and importance shouldnt hurt..i try to do that even though i received none..
But there are some dumb morons out there who are beyond help too.. their expectations of attention at times are a bit too high to be met and ive seen a few like that too.. so im willing to help but theres a point down the line where id just give up.. does that make me a bad man? Who knows.. Do i care if im a bad man? I dont think so..
Well Thanks a lot. But do you know that the suicide is the greatest sin and unforgivable? well you should know. and my suggestion is to describe this thing clearly to the person who are intended to make a HARIKIRI. Because most people think that they are getting rid of the so called society by committing this. It is better to tell them about it and should immediately be hospitalized with full time observation. Do not mind that's my opinion.