Boshonto Family

A frnd of mine has recently told me her problm...

1 of her closest frnds proposed her few days back.. frm then he started avoiding her ..He\'s been very sorry for doing this.. But he just coudnt help expressing his feelings though they were very very good frnds... He never wanted their frndship to get broken lik this.. but he somehow wants her more thn a frnd.....
and,..tht is somethin he cant digest and remain only frnds..

But My frnd... has alwayz been considering him nothin more thn a gr8 frnd! .....but she says she\'s been guessing this frm last 4 years.. finally tht really hapnd!! And.... she now.. jus cant take tht.. she\'s continiously tryin to contact him... by callin..smsing..
but he\'s jus avoiding her... totally... he jus wants a positive answer or nothin else! ..otherwise this relationship ends.

But My frnd.. \'s problm is she\'s nt been able to leave without his frndship.. which she\'s been endored with all these years.. she says.. he\'s ranked 2nd in her buddy\'s list!! ....

So what solution can u give .....u try.

I tried some... but i kno tht wont work.

Is there nobody..who can give a solution ??....where r u ppl!!

prothomoto jeta bolte hoi seta holo jokhon bapar ta ei porjai chole asese tokhon eikhane theke back korar kono upai nai... if you consider the boy\'s point of view he wont return back from loving her... Its his will to have her forever... so he is looking for the final answer...

Maye ta jokhon bhujte parchilo je ghotonata ghotte jasse tokhon tar uchit chilo cheletar sathe khola khuli kotha bolar... Not one or few months dude its 4yrs... But she didnot do it...
Now she is willing to keep friendship alive?

Well losing a friend is really painful.. Losing such a way is pathetic.. But they wont become friends as they were before...
it will be better for them if they talk face to face... sending SMS calls are not the solution...

Well Let me tell an story.. Its started long before... One of my friend fallen into love of his mother\'s friend\'s daughter... They knew each other from the childhood.. They came closer to each other during School and College life... At the end of the college life the boy proposed her and her reply was they were only best friends nothing else... I saw the tears and pain in that friends eyes I won\'t forget that sight... She got married and I have heard she has a daughter.. So my dear friend life goes on... Both of them are living without their friendship.. For that day when they broke up they could not become friends as they were before.... Take care....

\"For that day when they broke up they could not become friends as they were before.... \" - That\'s the reality ..isnt it?