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what do u do when someone hurts u badly..

Do u try to take revenge on that person or just let it go and forgive him / her? explaining the reasons behind this will be helpful to form a discussion..

be honest please..i will make sure none will bite u ..

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When someone hurts me very very badly....I just let it go and forgive him/her because I don\'t believe in taking in taking revenges. I believe that if s/he has done sth really bad then they will get their due punishment or sth of tht sort. Who am I to punish them OR take revenge....taar khoti kore amar ki labh? I won\'t get anything by takin revenge..will I?
Amar mone hoe je jai koruk na keno...at the end they will get their return according to their deeds.
So.....I forgive and forget....and I believe that is the best thing to do Smile
I believe in an eye for an eye.. atleast i used to..i might not get even immidiately but when i get the chance i sure will..

Even though im losing that lust for revenge and etc these days..i never forget..i might rarely forgive but i never forget..cuz as the saying goes..\"fool me once, shame on you.. fool me twice, shame on me\"..
US psychiatrist Thomas Szasz once said,\" the stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.\" I\'m trying to be a wise......
ami rervenge neoar age chinta kore nei asole ami revenge nite cjai kina..mane amar jonno sei ta sotti kono kaje lagbe kina
amar josh beshi..tai joshe joshe onke kisui kore felte pari...sei karonei revenge neoar age ami koekdin samay nei..jate aktu thanda hoe thada mathae chinta korte pari
koekdin kete jaoer por jodi mone hoe ha gotonata sotti revenge neoar joggo tahole chesta kori revenge ta nite
TIT 4 TAT -- this becomes the only headache for the first few hours
I will teach him/her some lesson -- next few days
Finally -- \"nothing there glorious to get revenge\" -- so forgive

but-- CAN\'T forget
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