06-01-2005, 01:09 PM
06-01-2005, 04:26 PM
daydream (abt good stuff) as much as u can 
06-01-2005, 09:52 PM
depends on the exact reason you are lonely for......
06-02-2005, 01:56 AM
It\'s not always necessary to have a reson to be lonely...
Every1 is lonely ...
but I keep myself busy in musicz listenning ...otherwise singing(gungun)..... sometimes tryin to remmber past... which more thn often makes me feel kore lonely...
Every1 is lonely ...
but I keep myself busy in musicz listenning ...otherwise singing(gungun)..... sometimes tryin to remmber past... which more thn often makes me feel kore lonely...
06-02-2005, 02:39 PM
Loneliness is a feeling of emptiness or hollowness inside us. We feel isolated or separated from the world, cut off from those we would like to have contact with. There are different kinds of loneliness and different degrees of loneliness. We might experience loneliness, as vague feelings that something is not right, a kind of minor emptiness. Or we might feel loneliness as a very intense deprivation and deep pain. One type of loneliness might be related to missing a specific individual because they have died or because they are so far away. Another type might be involve feeling alone and out of contact with people because you are actually physically isolated from people like you might be if you work alone on the night shift or are off alone in a part of a building where people seldom go. We might even feel emotionally isolated when we are surrounded by people but are having difficulty reaching out to them.
Recognize the lonely feelings and express them.
To stop feeling lonely, we first must accept that we are feeling lonely. Sometimes admitting that to us is difficult. We then have to express those feelings of loneliness in some way. We might find ourselves writing in a diary, writing an imaginary letter to a friend or relative, drawing or painting a picture, making up a song, or doing anything else that lets us begin to express the feelings we have inside us—including talking with other people!
Become more active.
The big change, of course, is to stop being passive and become more active. If we’re missing someone, such as parents, family, or friends, we can telephone, write, e-mail or visit them. Talking to an understanding friend can often help change our moods as well. If we don’t have an understanding friend, talking with a pastor, teacher or counsellor might be a place to start
Get involved in activities or clubs.
Getting involved in some sort of activity or club can accomplish several things. It can take our minds off of feeling lonely, as we get involved in the enjoyable activity. It can actually change our mood directly in this way. It can give us opportunities to meet people with similar interests and practice our people-meeting skills. It can provide some structure in our lives so that we have things to look forward to. It can remind us of how good we might have felt in the past doing similar things. Sometimes these effects can come very quickly and sometimes they may come more slowly
The above suggestions are from an expert. I think suggestions are really good. Sometime I feel lonely too but I say it aloneness. In my view aloneness is state when someone surrounded by people but don’t find people of his/her kind. Like Jibonando Das was said to be a lonely poet but he was more like alone than lonely. And I think his most famous poem ‘ Aat bosor aager akdin’ is about aloneness where the person suicide even though apparently he had everything.
‘’ jokon geasay dubay ponchomir chad
moribar holo tar sadd ;
bodu suay chlio pasay – sisu tio chilo
prem chilo; ashasa chilo – josnaya -tobu say dekilo
kon bhut? Gum keno vangay gelo tar?’’
And sometime if I experience loneliness I read books and browse net to find some good stuff. My favourite quote on loneliness is by Khalil Gibran.
Solitude has soft, silky hands but with strong fingers it grapes the heart and makes it ache with sorrow. Solitude is the ally of sorrow as well a companion of spiritual exaltation
Recognize the lonely feelings and express them.
To stop feeling lonely, we first must accept that we are feeling lonely. Sometimes admitting that to us is difficult. We then have to express those feelings of loneliness in some way. We might find ourselves writing in a diary, writing an imaginary letter to a friend or relative, drawing or painting a picture, making up a song, or doing anything else that lets us begin to express the feelings we have inside us—including talking with other people!
Become more active.
The big change, of course, is to stop being passive and become more active. If we’re missing someone, such as parents, family, or friends, we can telephone, write, e-mail or visit them. Talking to an understanding friend can often help change our moods as well. If we don’t have an understanding friend, talking with a pastor, teacher or counsellor might be a place to start
Get involved in activities or clubs.
Getting involved in some sort of activity or club can accomplish several things. It can take our minds off of feeling lonely, as we get involved in the enjoyable activity. It can actually change our mood directly in this way. It can give us opportunities to meet people with similar interests and practice our people-meeting skills. It can provide some structure in our lives so that we have things to look forward to. It can remind us of how good we might have felt in the past doing similar things. Sometimes these effects can come very quickly and sometimes they may come more slowly
The above suggestions are from an expert. I think suggestions are really good. Sometime I feel lonely too but I say it aloneness. In my view aloneness is state when someone surrounded by people but don’t find people of his/her kind. Like Jibonando Das was said to be a lonely poet but he was more like alone than lonely. And I think his most famous poem ‘ Aat bosor aager akdin’ is about aloneness where the person suicide even though apparently he had everything.
‘’ jokon geasay dubay ponchomir chad
moribar holo tar sadd ;
bodu suay chlio pasay – sisu tio chilo
prem chilo; ashasa chilo – josnaya -tobu say dekilo
kon bhut? Gum keno vangay gelo tar?’’
And sometime if I experience loneliness I read books and browse net to find some good stuff. My favourite quote on loneliness is by Khalil Gibran.
Solitude has soft, silky hands but with strong fingers it grapes the heart and makes it ache with sorrow. Solitude is the ally of sorrow as well a companion of spiritual exaltation
06-04-2005, 11:20 AM
after such a long long post i feel that i am not the person to talk abt loneliness..rather i should take a treap to andaman... where will be plenty of loneliness